Tuesday, January 31, 2012

You don't need the "rat race" to get vag-ay-jay

Good morning folks!

It's your boy Evan. i have a question for you:

Are you doing the 9-5 rat race, chasing financial security or pursuing some other goal in secret hopes that it will net you the girl of your dreams?

I have news for you. If you take this approach, the girl you are seeing RIGHT NOW will probably be the best you get in your life.

I'm not riffing on the value of working hard at your career, or having vision AT ALL. Coincidentally I am into that stuff as well. I'm a full time student, and will be attending a prestigious law school next year.

However I do not expect that to attract women in itself.

What will attract the woman of my dreams is me being dedicated to something I love, and that I challenge myself, not just the sole fact that I will be a lawyer. You get me guys? Cool.

So what will get you the girl of your dreams RIGHT NOW, regardless of your life situation?

Very simply: Cold approach.

Setting a plan for yourself, and living and dieing by that plan. Hitting these girls up.

Here's a video I created to explain specifically how this works, my apologies for the crappy lighting and audio =)

              So that's it. Is it scary starting this journey? Fuck yeah, who cares.

Will you see some crazy shit? Fuck yeah, is it worth going through this to get the woman of your dreams?

That's a question you have to answer for yourself. It was for me.

Thanks for tuning in, and let me know if this rings true for you guys.


Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Spontaniety of love

Have you ever had one of those days that you reflect on past relationships, the great girls that have been in your life, and you try to backtrack to discover what the formula was for meeting that girl, and hitting it off with her?

I'm having one of those days. As you probably gather from my introduction, I have been doing cold approach pick-up for the past 8 months religiously. 3 nights a week. It has been the constant in my ever changing life.

I say this to illustrate if there is someone out there looking to get into cold approach pick-up: as you get good at this that phenomenon doesn't go away. Although you may talk to 5-7 girls a night, when you're starting out you may not even find a girlfriend for 3-6 months.

HOWEVER, and this is important, the universe rewards action. This means that if you commit yourself to following a plan for pick-up, and follow it, women will start coming into your life at an alarming rate.

I am not here to sell you anything, or blow smoke up your ass. I created this blog because I believe in cold approach and it's effectiveness in improving one's dating and social life, as it has mine. I also want to document it as a testament to this period of my life.

So welcome everyone to a virtual journal/soap box/ and above all informative blog about cold approach pick-up.

I can only hope I do this art justice and pass on my zeal for it to other guys that are looking to get into the game.